LinkedIn Is More Than a Directory
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On leadership, entrepreneurship, people, business culture, personal setbacks and new beginnings.
It Is Easiest to Judge a Decision When We Do Not Pay Its Price
Before judging someone else’s decision, it is worth asking which part of the story we do not know and who bears the consequences.
Read essayWho Pays for a Change in Priorities?
A change in priorities can be justified.
Read essayThe First Customer Experience Should Not Become a Rule
The first satisfied customer can give an owner more confidence than the business currently warrants.
Read essayThe Owner’s Pace and the Team’s Capacity Are Different Things
A new idea can feel like a ten-minute conversation to the owner.
Read essayA Procedure Needs a Route for Exceptions
A procedure is useful when it helps people do the work and understand who is responsible for what.
Read essayTraining Is Complete When the Work Changes
We send someone to training.
Read essayA Customer Promise Must Reach the People Who Deliver It
Sales has agreed a job.
Read essayA Good Product Needs a Route to Its Customer
You can make something good and still have no customers.
Read essayFear of Failure and the Cost of Not Trying
Fear of failure can keep us standing still. It is worth distinguishing between an attempt that teaches us something and success at things we never wanted.
Read essayWhat Connects People to a Company?
Vision, understanding, motivation and the possibility of growth shape an employee’s relationship with a company. When someone leaves, it is worth examining how they were led too.
Read essayAn Open Door Is Not Yet Freedom
Sometimes our habit of staying keeps us in the same place. The first step need not tear down our entire life, but it asks us to admit what we can no longer carry.
Read essayWhat If I Am Not Seeing the Whole Picture?
Experience and confidence do not remove the need to examine our own judgment. Sometimes the costliest mistake begins with the conviction that we already know enough.
Read essayYesterday a Colleague, Today the Manager
The move from colleague to manager requires clarity, fairness and the authority to put your new responsibility into practice.
Read essayThe Most Costly Manager
An owner’s most costly mistake is not always the manager they chose, but the person they lost because of that choice.
Read essayThe Weight of Responsibility That Comes with Age
The responsibility that comes with age brings concern for those we love, and a need for someone to stay beside us when we have no solution.
Read essayHowever Strong You Think You Are, You Will Get Tired
A person can endure for a long time without noticing how much of themselves they have worn away while trying to protect everything around them.
Read essayThe Cost of Success We Do Not See
Behind the results others see lie exhaustion, missed moments and the question of how much of ourselves we lose while building what we imagined.
Read essayCompromise and What Truly Matters to Us
Compromise asks us to distinguish what we truly need from what we merely want. Meaning and what matters to us are worth preserving.
Read essayWhat Does Success Mean to Me?
From inherited measures, titles and numbers to a personal compass: freedom of choice, being present with family and being at peace with oneself.
Read essaySaying No Even to Good Opportunities
We cannot always accept a good opportunity. Boundaries protect our time, strength and ability to do well what we commit to.
Read essayAn Honest Look at Failure
Defeat asks for an honest look at mistakes and a willingness to try again. Character, trust and persistence still matter when results fall short.
Read essayDo More Than Learn—Act
Knowledge without action changes nothing. Entrepreneurship requires trying, taking risks, accepting mistakes and setting an example others can follow.
Read essayLeadership Begins with Better Questions
The right questions make room for learning, reconsidering decisions and adapting. Authority requires a willingness to hear what we do not yet know.
Read essayKnowledge and the Ability to Understand People
Speaking clearly, listening and understanding context build trust. Expertise gains its full value through our relationships with the people we work with.
Read essayThe Dark Side of Success
Fear of failure can become a powerful driving force. The dark side of success reveals an inner struggle that is rarely visible behind the results.
Read essayThe Value of Work Does Not Depend on a Title
Running a business and working for someone else deserve equal respect when approached with integrity, dedication and honesty towards oneself.
Read essayLeaders Have a Soul Too
Behind decisive choices stands a person who doubts and makes mistakes. Acknowledging a mistake and understanding another person's stumble are part of responsible leadership.
Read essayA procedure that used to give results
A business may continue to use the same sales method, the same tool, or the same arrangement simply because it worked before.
Read essayWhen additional work becomes a tacit condition
An employee can properly finish the agreed work and leave at the agreed time, and still receive a remark that they are no longer dedicated enough.
Read essayFairer Treatment Where We Have a Say
People do not start life with the same opportunities. Family, upbringing, health and access to education influence what they can try and the consequences they can endure.
Read essayRespect When the Other Person Has More Power
One's position may give them the right to make a decision, but not the right to belittle us.
Read essayAn Entry-Level Job That Requires an Experienced Worker
An entry-level job ad gets confusing when it asks for experience that the candidate has yet to gain.
Read essayWhat We Actually Gain from a Promotion
Promotion can bring better earnings, more important tasks and room for development. It can also bring many new obligations without a clear agreement on powers and support.
Read essayThe Person Behind Performance Measurement
The system can record how long a task takes, breaks and departures from the plan. However, the information itself does not explain why it happened or whether the worker had the conditions needed to meet the expectation.
Read essayDeveloping Ulcinj from Its Own Values
The conversation about the development of Ulcinj starts with space, heritage and the people who live there.
Read essayResponsibility After a New Beginning
A new date can give us a reason to pause and decide what we want to do differently. It doesn’t, in and of itself, change the way we work and live. A new beginning doesn’t have to be easy.
Read essayCharacter Between Dream and Reality
Between our dream and our reality often stand hundreds of lost battles, thousands of failures and a great deal of lost resolve. The memory of all the bad things that have happened to us can also stand between dream and reality.
Read essayLeadership Without Guarantees
A plan is necessary even when we cannot guarantee that everything will go according to plan. Conditions, people, or client needs change, so what was reasonable yesterday requires a new assessment today.
Read essayDecision Fatigue
Some fatigue has little to do with hours worked. It comes from weighing people against results, speed against correctness, and what is popular against what is necessary. Leaders also need room to pause.
Read essayThe Comfort That Silences Difficult Questions
Every organization has problems. It’s especially difficult when people stop asking questions about things that happen over and over again. People who have learned to nod their heads instead of thinking.
Read essayOrganizations That Fear Decision-Making
An organization can also be threatened by wrong decisions and a stubborn refusal to solve a known problem. When everyone sees the problem, but no one speaks up. When the truth is filtered out so that no one gets offended.
Read essayThe Freedom and Courage to Choose
Sometimes we know what decision we want to make, but we keep putting it off. We wait for more certainty, a better moment, or confirmation that we won’t make a mistake. This is not the same as a genuine lack of choice.
Read essayGood enough that nothing changes
Sometimes we put off change because our current relationship or job still seems tolerable enough. It’s not at rock bottom. It’s not even where we want it to be. But it’s comfortable enough to postpone decisions.
Read essayEffort, Patience, and Process
Our age of the internet and instant gratification is slowly distancing us from what once seemed normal: effort, patience and process. That is precisely where the problem arises. Effort is not an obstacle to growth. Effort is growth.
Read essayExplanations That Delay Action
An explanation can help us understand an obstacle. But when we repeat it without checking what we can do, it easily becomes a way to keep everything the same.
Read essayThe Time We Waste Procrastinating
The most dangerous lie of our time is not that life is hard. The most dangerous lie is that you still have time. Time does not disappear suddenly. It slips away quietly. In procrastination. In “tomorrow.” In plans without action.
Read essayOpportunities and the Responsibilities That Follow
An opportunity in itself is not a finished result. A new job, collaboration, or project demands an assessment of what they offer and what they expect from us. Sometimes we let an opportunity slip by out of fear.
Read essayA New Decision Instead of a New Beginning
Life and work are shaped by circumstances, but also by the decisions we make—or keep putting off. In leadership, mistakes are inevitable. In business, misjudgments happen. In life, wrong choices are part of the journey.
Read essayBe a resource to the people around you
Share the lessons you’ve learned from your successes and failures. Whenever you can, be a resource to the people around you. If you have access to knowledge and basic information, don’t hoard it. Share it openly.
Read essayEverything That Precedes the Final Image of Success
The final picture of success does not always show the rejection, withdrawal and pressure that preceded it. A reflection on ego, loneliness and the weight of new opportunities.
Read essayThe Responsibility of the Entrepreneur
An entrepreneur carries salaries, expectations and the weight of decisions. Behind the visible result lie constant alertness, fear, loneliness and the satisfaction of creating something.
Read essayEmbracing Reality Without Drama
Work is sometimes chaotic, relationships are complicated, and expectations exceed what we can actually accomplish. Part of the pressure stems from these real-life circumstances.
Read essayKnowledge is valuable when it becomes action
I know many people who have read countless books, yet still fail to put what they’ve read into practice.
Read essayWhat We Do Not Know About Another Person’s Exhaustion
The weariness we see in a person isn’t always just about work. Responsibilities can pile up, along with worries about the family, the pressure to be available, and events they don’t talk about.
Read essayWhat We Can Control
We cannot control every circumstance, but we can learn how to respond to them. Understanding and accepting those limits helps you deal skilfully with life’s small but persistent inconveniences.
Read essayChoices Through Which We Discover Ourselves
There have been periods in my life when I’ve faced serious choices in my personal growth. I’d find myself at a crossroads, wondering what was best for me. This or that? What if I make a mistake?
Read essayThe Pattern We Carry Into a New Environment
A new environment, country or project can offer genuinely better conditions. Not every desire for change is an escape from ourselves. Still, it is worth examining what we bring with us. Are we repeating the same unclear agreement in a new job?
Read essayKnowledge, Understanding, and Strategic Action
Knowledge can help with decision-making. Understanding helps us apply it to the right question. Information can give you an edge. Wisdom gives you stability. You may know all the numbers, all the facts, all the theories.
Read essayMoney and the Perceptions We Carry
We don’t just walk into a store with money. We also bring expectations about what we need, what we should have, and how others will see us if we buy something.
Read essayMisunderstanding Begins Before the Answer
Misunderstanding sometimes begins even before the answer, in what we have already decided to think. We don’t listen to understand. We listen to respond. To defend our position. To protect our ego.
Read essayTaking Responsibility for One’s Conclusions
Misunderstandings often begin in how we interpret what we hear. So it is worth asking: what should we do with this mind of ours? The problem is not a lack of information. Today, information is plentiful.
Read essayGoals Without the Need to Control Every Detail
Set goals. Dream. Work with discipline. But release the notion that every detail of your life must look exactly as you pictured it to be “good enough.”
Read essayPeace or Validation?
Sometimes it becomes more important to me how the result will look to others than what it will change in my life. Then success is no longer just the work I want to do, but a confirmation of the image I’ve created of myself.
Read essayWhen the Ego Becomes Identity
The need to preserve our self-image is not the same as the need to solve a problem. In an argument, the two are easily confused. The ego wants certainty. It wants to be right. It wants to be seen, recognised and validated.
Read essayScenarios That Haven’t Happened Yet
My mind is sometimes my biggest battlefield. I return to the same decision and imagine several things that could go wrong, even though none has happened. It helps to separate an assumption from a fact.
Read essaySuccess and Self-Perception
The greatest paradox of success is that people start to see you differently, but you must not start to see yourself differently. Because the moment you believe you’ve “made it,” you stop growing.
Read essayI’m Not Afraid of Failure, but of Losing Myself
I am not afraid of failure. I have been through times when I did not have enough, when people underestimated me, and when I worked in silence. The more dangerous test comes later, when I begin to succeed.
Read essayAs You Grow, Others’ Perceptions of You Change
An interesting change happens when you start to grow. It is not only your life that changes. The way people see you changes too. When you are starting out, everyone has advice. Everyone knows what you should do.
Read essayWhy Isn’t This World Getting Better?
Why isn’t this world getting better? This question returns whenever I see the same conflicts, injustices, and decisions whose consequences are borne by people who did not make them.
Read essayThe Moments That Shape Us
There were times when I took on jobs without much thought. There were periods when I had to endure supervisors who held a position but lacked the knowledge or education to justify it.
Read essayLife Is Limited by Our Attention
Life is not limited only by time. It is also limited by our attention. We may indeed lack time. But it is worth examining how much of our attention is wasted on obligations we have not consciously chosen.
Read essayHow We Approach Challenges
We face challenges we are not prepared for. Some follow our own choices; others do not. How we respond matters, but a poor outcome is not proof that we approached the problem wrongly.
Read essayWhere Has Modesty Gone?
Modesty is often treated as weakness in a world of loud successes and titles. I find it harder to tell actual work from its presentation. What remains once the polished image is stripped away?
Read essayKnowledge provides answers; wisdom asks questions
There is an interesting difference between knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge often makes you confident in what you say. Wisdom often makes you cautious. Knowledge gives answers. Wisdom asks questions. Knowledge likes to show how much it knows.
Read essayThe Quiet Progress Created by Habits
At the start of the journey, it often seems that some people are moving slowly. Their results aren’t spectacular. Their progress isn’t dramatic. Their journey doesn’t look impressive.
Read essayIntelligence and Modesty
There is a paradox that often occurs among highly intelligent people. Their greatest strength sometimes becomes their greatest weakness. Intelligence can open many doors. But the ego can close even more.
Read essayThe Distance That Comes with a High-Level Title
Lately, through various business contacts, I have noticed an interesting pattern. The higher the position in the hierarchy, the greater the distance some people keep from others. Their tone grows colder. The conversation grows shorter.
Read essayThe Arrogance of Great Powers
When you look at what’s happening among the great powers, it’s easy to say: politics, interests, geopolitics. But there’s another word we rarely use: arrogance—not the everyday, petty kind, but the systemic kind.
Read essayAn Example That Speaks Louder Than Criticism
People rarely change their behavior because you criticized them. But they often change it because of the way you lived your life. Don’t judge others. Don’t condemn with words. Don’t condemn with a glance.
Read essayTake a Step Back for a Clearer View
If you want to see the world more clearly, sometimes you have to take a step back. In the constant rush, it’s easy to lose perspective. Everything becomes urgent. Everything becomes important.
Read essayThe Best Response Is to Keep Working
The more I write publicly, the more feedback I receive. Some comments are helpful, some are unpleasant, and some are pure dismissal. Lumping them all together is a mistake.
Read essayHow to Stay Human While Succeeding
Being human today isn’t easy. Not because we lack opportunities. But because we have too many choices. Sometimes you have to choose between what you truly think and what will be more readily accepted. You can be yourself.
Read essayGreat Potential, Too Little Real Value
We’ve long had everything a small country needs to succeed: nature, location, resources, and people.
Read essayEnough Work to Do on Myself
I do not want to concern myself with other people’s business. I have enough work to do on myself. Every imperfection in someone else is just a point on the path they are travelling. Like mine. It is called life. Perhaps someone is watching me right now. My choices.
Read essayTikTok in a Suit
A personal reflection on LinkedIn and the cost of adapting to its format: what remains of why we started writing when a post’s reach becomes the main concern?
Read essaySharing What We Know Without Pretending to Be Infallible
In these crazy times, I catch myself not even understanding myself. How can you give advice to others when you are not always clear to yourself? Perhaps by no longer pretending that you are. For a long time, I thought advice had to be firm.
Read essayPain Is Not a License for Arrogance
I’m seeing more and more arrogance. Condescension. A condescending attitude. And every time, it’s the same story: “You know what I’ve been through…” As if pain were an automatic license for bad behavior.
Read essayYour Own Measure of Success
Forget this obsession with results. Life doesn’t go according to plan. It never has. There will be mistakes. There will be setbacks. There will be moments when you’ll wonder what you’re even doing.
Read essayHabits That Lead to Results
Success is not an event. It is a habit. The same applies to failure. Some problems develop over time through small oversights. Failure is a process. You skip one call. You ignore one problem. You postpone one decision.
Read essayThe Silence We Call Professionalism
“I stay silent because I am a professional” can mean many different things. Sometimes a person chooses the right moment for a conversation. Sometimes they lack the facts. And sometimes they know that raising an objection will put their job at risk.
Read essayWhen Keeping a Position Becomes the Reason to Stay
A position becomes a problem when a person puts more energy into keeping it than into the work they have taken on. The same decisions are repeated, mistakes remain, and a conversation about a successor is seen as a threat.
Read essayRights and Responsibilities on Both Sides of the Table
We often discuss rights and obligations at work as if they belong to opposing sides. Employers complain there are no workers; workers complain there are no good employers. A fair relationship requires responsibility on both sides.
Read essayYou’ve succeeded, but what kind of person are you?
You are a director? Well done. A millionaire? Well done. A prime minister? Well done. A PhD? Well done. But what kind of person are you? The problem is not that you succeeded. It is when success makes you think you are worth more than others.
Read essayFinancial Literacy as a Life Skill
We work and earn, yet at the end of the month we sometimes do not clearly know where the money went. Bills, purchases and small daily obligations seem understandable individually, but their total surprises us. The level of income matters.
Read essayKnowing Is Not the Same as Understanding
Information is readily available today. A few searches can give us an explanation of a concept, a model or a theory. That does not yet mean we understand how they apply in business. The difference often becomes apparent when a decision has to be made.
Read essayExperience Transformed into Action
A difficult experience can long remain part of the way we talk about ourselves. We return to a mistake, a decision, or a loss and try to understand how we ended up here. This understanding is important.
Read essayA Costly Lesson Is Not a Defeat
Some mistakes cost us time, relationships, or peace of mind. A costly lesson is valuable when it changes how we act next time, rather than leaving us exactly the same.
Read essaySuccess as a Test of Character
On the path to success, it’s not just your ability that’s being tested. Your character is being tested. You’ll have to mature. Become mentally stronger. Build discipline, patience, and inner stability.
Read essayToday I can do a little, and that’s enough
Sometimes we just don’t feel like doing anything. We’re not machines. Sometimes the body gets tired, sometimes the mind, and sometimes the soul.
Read essayWho holds the key to our time?
Wondering where your days go? Where else? Into meetings that could have been a message. Into messages that could have been ignored. Into emails that begin with “just a quick one” and end as a small international crisis.
Read essayYou Have the Right to Change Your Mind
Just because you once loved something doesn’t mean you’ve signed a lifetime contract with it. You can change your mind. Changing your mind isn’t in itself a reason to consider yourself unreliable.
Read essayStaying Human When It Doesn’t Pay Off
We try to live peacefully, follow our principles, and avoid harming others. The harder test comes when decency seems to put us at a disadvantage.
Read essayA Smile That Hides an Agenda
The most dangerous people are not always those who attack openly. More dangerous are those who smile while undermining you. Those who pat you on the shoulder while calculating how they can use you.
Read essayAn idea is the beginning; work is the proof
Whatever your age, the point is always the same: a good business starts with an idea. Not with perfect conditions. Not with substantial capital. Not with everyone’s support. Not with applause. Not with certainty that it will succeed.
Read essayHigher Income and the Need to Show Success
Sometimes I see the same pattern. As soon as a little money comes in, first come the car, the watch, the clothes, the luxury and, inevitably, a little excess. Because what is the first thing someone does when things go well? Build a system? Invest in knowledge?
Read essayWhat We Can Understand After Rejection
Someone follows your work, understands what you do, and still does not buy.
Read essayFear and the Need for Control
Fear can intensify stress. Work, family, bills, obligations, and relationships can create real pressure. Fear of what might happen can further intensify it. Fear that you won’t succeed. Fear that you won’t be loved.
Read essayA Response That Doesn’t Escalate the Conflict
A harsh response can intensify a conflict. Do not descend to the language of those who attack you. Do not answer with an insult just because someone else used one first. That does not defeat them; it only makes you lose yourself.
Read essayTruth or Anesthesia?
The harsh truth is that many people aren’t looking for the truth. They’re looking for anesthesia. They want a phrase that will calm them down, a quote that will give them a sense of depth.
Read essayWhen a fair relationship is seen as an opening to exploit
The more fair you are as an employer, the sooner you face an unpleasant truth: Some people don’t know how to value a fair relationship. They don’t see it as humanity, but as an opportunity for exploitation.
Read essayA Stamp, a Position, and Character
A person needs little to show who they are. In the Balkans, some people don’t even need great power.
Read essaySmarter People Are Not a Threat
Do not let people smarter than you frighten you. They are not a threat. The problem begins when a louder opinion is accepted without examination, while a better-reasoned proposal is rejected simply because it comes from someone else.
Read essayDid I Live, or Was I Merely Useful?
We were born to live. But then we agreed to turn life into a schedule, obligations, deadlines, pressure, meetings, loans, proving ourselves, and an endless race for something that is never enough.
Read essayHow Much Truth Can a Company Bear?
I trust most those people who have stopped speaking out. Not because they have nothing to say. But because they have seen too many times that the truth within a company does not hold the same weight for everyone.
Read essayThe Burdens a Company Bears in Silence
The heaviest burdens in a company are often not the ones discussed in meetings. They are carried in silence. Behind closed doors.
Read essayEntrepreneurship Beyond the Success Story
Entrepreneurship is often discussed in terms of success, growth, money, courage, risk, and vision. But that’s not the whole story.
Read essayWork Is Never Just Work
People often say that business is just business. That sentence sometimes sounds mature, like an attempt to separate emotions from obligations.
Read essayHumanity That Is Only Spoken of Beautifully
I wonder whether we even live on the same planet. Some seem to read books to become better people, while others do so to have prettier quotations as they trample over others. Some fight wrongdoing because injustice hurts them.
Read essayBefore Every Role, There Is a Person
Before any role or title, there is a person with their own exhaustion, fears, limits, habits, and unspoken struggles.
Read essayYou Don’t Have to Endure Everything
I used to think that strength lay in enduring everything. In being available to everyone. In getting as much done as possible.
Read essayDon’t forget why you started
Today, the problem is no longer that people don’t know what’s right. The problem is that many have forgotten why they set out on that path in the first place.
Read essayRest, or a Pause Between Two Bouts of Exhaustion?
I think we’re losing the ability to truly rest. We know how to change locations. We know how to go to the beach, to the mountains, or on a trip.
Read essayWhen We’ve Had Enough of Everything
There are moments when we have had enough of everything. Not of life. Of pressure. People. Obligations. Expectations. Struggle. The silence we carry inside while pretending on the outside that everything is under control. We are tired of being strong.
Read essayHow often do we examine ourselves?
How often should a person take stock of themselves? Much more often than they think. Life’s greatest catastrophes rarely happen overnight. You don’t wake up one morning and suddenly realize you’ve lost yourself.
Read essayStrength That Doesn’t Need to Shout
Many people want to be successful and have their work recognized. Even those who claim to have no great ambition deep down wish, deep down, to be respected, noticed, and valued. But there is one truth we often overlook.
Read essayA Secure Job and the Responsibility That Comes With It
Something strange sometimes happens in a company. A person is given a secure job, regular pay, fair treatment, understanding and room to live normally, then gradually begins to behave as though all of this belongs to them by default.
Read essayA Company Larger Than One Person
There comes a moment when a company becomes bigger than the person who created it—bigger than their habits, their control, and the way they have long thought, made decisions, and survived.
Read essayLeaders Who Change Course but Stay True to Their Character
Changes in business test both those who have long led companies and those who are just taking on responsibility. For years, many owners, directors, and managers have led companies in a way that once yielded results.
Read essayThe Person Behind the Expensive Signs of Success
There are times when a person must speak up in order for others to recognize them. But there are also times like these, when many believe they recognize a person the moment they see what kind of car they’re getting out of.
Read essayThe Person Behind a Single Negative Reaction
One reason our relationships are deteriorating is that we define people too quickly based on what they showed in a single moment.
Read essayExperience Is Not Always an Advantage
Experience sometimes becomes a collection of old defeats that a person learns, over time, to cite as proof that they are right. Not because they have truly learned more, but because it is easier to believe that the past can no longer fool them.
Read essayThe Most Costly Decision Is the One You Put Off
Putting off a decision has a cost, even when a company is still operating and looks stable from the outside. The most costly decision is often the one everyone sees, everyone understands, and no one makes.
Read essayA Boundary That Protects Dignity
If you must draw a line, do not draw it where it will be convenient for others. Draw it where you will preserve your dignity.
Read essayWhy Is It Hard to Admit a Mistake?
“I made a mistake” can sometimes be difficult to say even when we see how much defending that mistake costs us. Not because people cannot see their mistake, but because they believe admitting it will make them smaller. The opposite is true.
Read essayListening That Is Disappearing from Our Conversations
There is something slowly disappearing from our conversations. Listening.
Read essayWhen a Company Outgrows Its Owner
There is a moment that is rarely discussed. Not because it is rare, but because it is difficult to admit.
Read essayPower Does Not Give You the Right to Be Arrogant
Success changes a person’s position, but it does not give them the right to humiliate others. Greater power also carries greater responsibility for the way we treat people.
Read essayHow are you?
There is a question we ask others almost every day, yet ask ourselves less and less often. Not because the answer does not interest us, but because we fear we might have to admit for the first time how far we have drifted from ourselves.
Read essaySuccess That Exists Only in a Photograph
Today, it’s easier to fabricate success than to admit you don’t have it yet. It’s easier to play the winner, pose as an expert, and sell a story about results that no one has ever seen.
Read essayDo you know who I am?
This question is rarely asked by someone who truly knows who they are. It is much more often asked by those who fear that without a position, a last name, money, or connections, they will not be important enough.
Read essayWhen the Cause of a Problem Is Sought Only Outside the Company
When a company begins to weaken, owners and managers usually look outside. They seek someone to blame in the market, competition, the state, customers, employees and new generations who supposedly no longer want to work.
Read essayWhen Authority Does Not Broaden Our Perspective
More and more people look down on others, as though age, knowledge, experience, money or position gave them the right to decide whose words matter, whose struggle deserves respect and who is important enough to be heard.
Read essayWhen “Let me do it” Becomes an Expectation
There are people in the company who are the first to notice when something hasn’t been done and the last to leave until it’s finished.
Read essayWhen We Get Used to the Distance Between Us
In traffic, I see nervousness. On the street, absence. In grocery stores, impatience. In cafés and restaurants, people sit together yet act as if they are not.
Read essayWe can help someone write a better chapter
This world is no fairy tale. For some people, it is a harsh place—much harsher than we can imagine until we stop and look at how they live, what burdens they carry, and what they struggle with every day.
Read essayWhen We Stop Agreeing on Responsibilities
There comes a moment when obligations in a company are no longer agreed upon. They are simply added, one after another, almost imperceptibly, as though they had always been there and it were taken for granted that you would take them on.
Read essayPerfectly Justified Indecision
In business, security is often measured by the number of rules, checkpoints, and signatures required to get something moving.
Read essayWhen a company begins to resemble the person who runs it
There comes a moment when a role ceases to be a responsibility and becomes an extension of the ego. The owner then no longer views the company as a system that must be better than they are.
Read essayA company is more than what we build
A company is often judged by what is visible on the outside: revenue, contracts, assets, growth, and the number of employees.
Read essayWhen We Begin to Maintain What We Have Built
There comes a moment when a person no longer builds only what they want. They begin maintaining what they have already created. Work that was once an idea becomes a system requiring constant attention.
Read essayHow much of our lives have we truly lived?
I often returned to the same question, just from different angles. What’s the point of all this? How much of the life I’m living is truly mine?
Read essayWhen You Succeed at Something You No Longer Want
It is hard to admit that we have succeeded at something we no longer want. We can spend years building a business, career, position, or life we were certain we wanted, investing time, money, energy, sacrifice, and much of ourselves.
Read essayWe Don’t Have to Carry Everything With Us
Some things are part of our life’s baggage, but that doesn’t mean we’re obligated to carry them to the end. It’s worth recognizing what still serves us and what merely takes us back to conversations that have already ended.
Read essayWhen We Make a Problem More Complicated Ourselves
At times I was amazed by my incredible ability to turn a bad situation into an even worse one. Quite masterfully.
Read essayMoments That Become Memories
Some moments pass almost unnoticed. Only later do I realize that I’m missing a casual conversation, an encounter, or a moment that I thought would be easy to repeat.
Read essayDecisions Made in Silence
The pressure to respond immediately isn’t always a good reason to decide immediately. Sometimes it takes a few minutes or another conversation to distinguish the urgency of the problem from the urgency of someone else’s request.
Read essayAttention in Conversation
We may be physically present at a meeting, but spend half the conversation thinking about what to say or checking our messages.
Read essaySuccess We Don’t Turn Into a Spectacle
You’ve achieved a good result and want to share your joy. Then you run into a colleague who isn’t doing so well right now.
Read essayFreedom as a Real Space of Choice
It’s easy to talk about the freedom to take risks as if we’re all starting from the same place. For one person, business failure means they’ll try again.
Read essayInequality and Responsibility for Systemic Change
Talks about a fairer society often end with choosing a name for the system. As if a new label alone could fix the concentration of power, inequality, and responsibility.
Read essayCriticizing an idea is not an attack on a person
A discussion of an idea can easily veer off course. Instead of asking what is good or bad about the proposal, we start talking about what kind of person put it forward.
Read essayGood Will Hunting and the Fear of Being Seen
In Good Will Hunting, what draws me in more than the genius is the question of how hard it is to let another person get to know us.
Read essayA Community We Can Turn to
I want a community where even people with no connections, no influence, and no one to recommend them can get help.
Read essayThe Perfect Image and the Real Person
In the film “S1m0ne,” a director played by Al Pacino creates a digital actress. The audience accepts her as a real person, and her success becomes a problem he can no longer easily control.
Read essayGetting Through the Phase Where You Look Average
The beginning of learning can be uncomfortable precisely because it’s visible. You want to do a good job, but you don’t have a routine yet.
Read essayWhy is it so rare to write honestly about failure?
Success has a photograph; failure has silence. Why is it hard to write about a fall before a happy ending exists, and are we ready to read that story?
Read essayAn Entrepreneur Between Completed Work and Payment
There are moments in entrepreneurship when you have thousands “up in the air”: completed projects, sent invoices, and upcoming projects.
Read essayA Small Country and Clear Responsibilities
A small country could be easier for citizens and entrepreneurs to navigate. It should be clear who is responsible, what is required, and when a request will be resolved.
Read essayWhen a Game Becomes Infrastructure
Pokémon GO shows that a game can become part of an infrastructure that outlives entertainment itself.
Read essayThank you to those who came and those who stayed
Some people were important during a certain period of my life. Some stayed with me afterward. Only with the benefit of hindsight do I realize how much our conversations, their help, and the time we spent together influenced me.
Read essayA Lunch That Cannot Replace Years of Learning
I recently heard about a thousand-euro lunch that supposedly helps you understand business better. Honestly, I thought I had been doing it wrong all these years.
Read essayPublic Office as Opportunity or Responsibility
Public office provides access to information, decisions, and resources that other people do not have. That is precisely why it should not be viewed as a personal business opportunity.
Read essaySmall Systems That Work
When I look at big problems, it’s easy to feel that my work can’t change anything. Countries, institutions, and conflicts operate far beyond what I can directly influence.
Read essayHigher Income and the Same Habits
For a long time, I thought earning more money would fix my relationship with money. When my income went up, so did my expenses.
Read essayWhat Do We Change After a Mistake?
A mistake at work demands more than an apology. We need to understand what happened and what we’ll change so it doesn’t happen again.
Read essayThe Small Tasks We Put Off
It’s easy to wait for big opportunities. It’s harder to finish the small tasks that are already in front of us: returning a call, sending a promised email, finalizing a proposal, or setting aside an hour for something we keep putting off.
Read essayWho are you without what makes you important?
A job can end, a company can go under, and a position can change. When we tie our entire identity to what we’re currently doing or have, such a loss raises the question of how we’ll view ourselves afterward.
Read essayMore Tools, Less Responsibility
We have many tools that make planning and execution easier: machines, software, precise measurements, and models that let us see details before work begins.
Read essayA System That Protects a False Peace
A system may have rules that appear the same for everyone, yet are applied differently in practice. This is particularly evident when someone complains about the conduct of a person in a position of authority.
Read essayBetween Those Who Won’t Let Go and Those Who Won’t Take Over
A generational transition can easily lead to stagnation: the more experienced are reluctant to relinquish responsibility, while the younger generation waits for recognition before being given the opportunity to prove themselves.
Read essayA Position Open to Scrutiny
We need a position to act on, but it must be open to scrutiny. When an idea does not withstand testing, it is worth examining what happened and what needs to change.
Read essayWhat Cannot Be Copied
A product, service, or presentation method can quickly be replicated on the market. Therefore, we cannot assess a company’s value solely based on what competitors see on the surface.
Read essayWhy Is It Hard to Find Workers?
When a company struggles to find workers, it should also examine what it offers: pay, clear responsibilities, communication, and conditions an employee can expect after a few months.
Read essayWhat Really Drives Our Decisions?
Some decisions are easier to explain logically than to acknowledge the feelings that prompted them.
Read essayWhen Dismissing Someone Becomes Too Easy
How often have we dismissed someone and afterwards felt truly at peace with ourselves? I mean the human weight of the decision, beyond its administrative justification.
Read essayWhy Do We Actually Want Money?
Before we start chasing money, it’s worth asking ourselves why we want it. That answer determines what we’re willing to accept along the way.
Read essayWhen the Human Element Disappears from a Lecture
A lecture may be accurate, well-organized, and well-prepared, yet the listener may still be unclear on how to apply that knowledge.
Read essayA Salary Is More Than a Number in a Spreadsheet
For the owner, a salary is an obligation that must be fulfilled even when business isn’t going well, when payments are late, when clients are pressuring them, and when the numbers don’t add up.
Read essayA Conversation with Myself from Twenty Years Ago
If I could sit across from my younger self from twenty-odd years ago, I would be silent at first. I would not start with advice, because I know I probably would not have heard it then.
Read essayWhat I Didn’t Know When I Started My Business
Twenty years ago, I started my business. I didn’t know what a balance sheet was. I didn’t know what an income statement was.
Read essayDon’t expect an employee to act like an owner if you treat them like an expense
You can’t expect an employee to carry the company like an owner if you treat them merely as an expense. This is one of the biggest misconceptions in business.
Read essayWhen a Person Outgrows a Company
There may come a time when a person outgrows a company. Not because they’ve become bigger than it. But because they can no longer breathe within it.
Read essayWhen the Noise Begins to Live Within Us
We open a text, a message pops up, we check the news, and move on to a video. I wonder how much of all that we actually understood, and how much we merely got the impression that we were informed.
Read essayNot every defeat is a major life lesson
Sometimes you simply made a mistake. You didn’t know enough, you trusted the wrong people, you rushed, or you were too late. But sometimes you did almost everything right, and yet it still wasn’t enough.
Read essayGiving Advice When Someone Else Bears the Consequences
I am wary of how easily some people pin the title of “life coach” on themselves. A polished profile and a confident demeanor do not, on their own, show how well a person grasps the consequences of the advice they give.
Read essaySales as a Continuation of Trust
We’ve complicated sales to the point where we sometimes no longer recognize it. What once began with a simple conversation has become a system full of catchphrases, techniques, scripts, presentations, and big words.
Read essayThe Art of Subtraction
When we add commitments, meetings, and plans, it’s easy to forget to check what we no longer need. Our schedule fills up, and there’s less and less room for what’s important to us.
Read essayIdeas That Require Us to Admit We Were Wrong
Sometimes people don’t reject your idea because it’s bad. They reject it because, if they admit it’s good, they’d have to admit they’ve been thinking wrongly for years.
Read essayAre We Preparing Children for the Future or for the Past?
We often believe that we are preparing children for the future. But what if, in fact, we are preparing them for the past?
Read essayWhy has it become shameful not to know?
There has been a quiet shift that we have almost imperceptibly accepted. People used to be reluctant to speak about what they did not understand.
Read essayA Company Is Not a Family, and That’s Not a Problem
Calling a company a family can lead us to expect more than we agreed upon. Owners may seek loyalty without clear boundaries, while employees may expect security the company cannot promise.
Read essayA client who brings in revenue but drains the company
Revenue can be deceiving. When a major client fills the revenue table, it’s easy to believe that this is proof of stability. The numbers look good, plans are being met, and the company seems more secure than ever.
Read essayPressure Does Not Justify Chaos
Pressure is an integral part of any serious business. Deadlines are tight, customers are impatient, there’s never as much money as we’d like, and problems rarely come one at a time.
Read essayA Company That Depends on the Owner’s Nervous System
In the beginning, almost every company depends on its owner. They sell, negotiate, solve problems, hire, put out fires, and make the most important decisions.
Read essayThe Most Expensive Employee Isn’t the One with the Highest Salary
A good employee’s high salary is often an investment that pays off many times over. Far more costly is an employee whose irresponsibility is tolerated for months while others shoulder their responsibilities.
Read essayA Manager Speaks Two Languages
In many companies, managers are mistakenly seen as people who merely relay the owners’ decisions to employees. But that is perhaps the smallest part of their job.
Read essayWhen a Role Overshadows the Person
A company cannot function without clearly defined responsibilities. That is why there are owners, managers, executives, and employees.
Read essayDon’t Live in Someone Else’s Interpretation
People often view us through their own eyes, their own wounds, their own fears, their own interests, and their own limitations. Some will see pride in your silence.
Read essayWhen a Person Burns Out
Burnout is not the same as ordinary exhaustion. We cannot reduce it to a few days off, nor can we assign the same recovery time to everyone.
Read essayNot Everyone Has to Be an Entrepreneur
Today, entrepreneurship is often presented as proof of courage, ambition, and personal worth—as if you’ve only succeeded when you start something of your own.
Read essayWhen Thinking Becomes an Excuse
Sometimes we hesitate not because we lack a solution, but because we want to be absolutely certain before taking the first step.
Read essayStaying Is Not Always a Sign of Strength
People often praise those who endure for a long time—those who remain silent, endure, wait, and do not give up. They are viewed as serious, loyal, and strong people.
Read essayExperience That Begins to Hinder Us
Experience can make our work more difficult when we stop verifying what we think we know. At first, we make mistakes because we lack sufficient experience.
Read essayJudgment Before Understanding
Today, people are quick to judge one another. It is enough for someone to think differently, live differently, or make a decision others do not understand for them to immediately declare that person wrong.
Read essayThe Environment That Shapes Our Best Intentions
Our environment shapes what eventually becomes normal to us. This is evident in the way we talk about work, expect support, and react when someone tries to do things differently.
Read essayDrama Begins Where Acceptance Ends
Drama begins where acceptance ends. We make certain everyday complications even more difficult with our own reactions.
Read essayDo people really want freedom?
People often say they want freedom. They want to choose their own path, make their own decisions, and live without interference from others.
Read essayI am not the best example of everything I write about
Writing about boundaries and responsibility does not mean we always live by them. An admission of personal mistakes and a reminder that a position is not proof of infallibility.
Read essayWhen an Owner Loses Control of Their Own Company
A serious problem arises when an owner realizes that their company is being managed by a few people’s moods, rather than a clear system.
Read essayA company remembers the consequences of its decisions
A company doesn’t just remember what you’ve decided. Some decisions end the moment you sign them. Others only begin then.
Read essayAn Entire Past, Almost No Present
We don’t call certain people anymore, but we haven’t had a falling out. Nothing major happened. There were no harsh words, no argument—not even a moment after which we said it was over.
Read essayYou Don’t Have to Know Everything
One of the more costly misconceptions in business is the belief that an owner or manager must have an answer to every question.
Read essayWhen Decisions Turn into Meetings
Some companies don’t postpone decisions. They turn them into meetings. In such organizations, every problem that requires a clear answer first becomes a topic for discussion.
Read essayCompany culture is also evident when someone leaves
Companies lavish attention on new hires. They welcome the new person, introduce them to the team, post a photo, and announce that a new chapter is beginning.
Read essayA Better Place in an Unjust System
Sometimes it turns out that a person didn’t want a more just system. They just wanted a better place in an unjust system.
Read essayUnderstanding Our Parents Differently as We Get Older
For a long time, we see our parents through a child’s eyes. We remember what they did not allow, words that upset us and boundaries we did not understand.
Read essayThe experience we discard before we need it
We begin to appreciate experience only when its absence starts to cost us dearly. For years, companies have been saying they seek knowledge, stability, and responsibility.
Read essayEurope as a Change We Must Make Within Ourselves
Montenegro was part of Europe long before EU negotiations. Membership is about more than geography, funding, open borders and business opportunities.
Read essayWho selects the information for a decision?
In a large company, the decision-making process begins long before a document reaches the CEO’s desk. Someone selects data, prepares a report, and decides whose comments will be included.
Read essayThe best work is sometimes invisible
The best work sometimes looks as if nothing has been done. No problem arose, no deadline was missed, the client didn’t complain, the system didn’t crash, and the extra cost never arose.
Read essayDigitized Chaos
We have digitized processes we never learned how to manage. We’ve replaced paper forms with apps, moved meetings to online platforms, transformed reports into dashboards, and turned every employee’s action into measurable data.
Read essayThe Future After Our Decisions
Until I became a parent, the future was mostly mine. I could imagine it through my plans, decisions, successes and failures.
Read essayInjustice doesn’t become any less of an injustice just because it’s committed by one of our own
Evil is evil. And nothing can justify it. But when I look at what has been happening in our region and what is happening around the world, I wonder how ready we really are to stand behind that statement.
Read essayLife goes on even when the screen goes dark
Technology has accustomed us to shortening the gap between wanting something and getting it. We increasingly fill waiting, boredom and silence with a screen, making the example we set for children important.
Read essayWhen What We See No Longer Disturbs Us
Sometimes a person reads the news or opens a website just to see what’s going on, and after a few minutes is left with a feeling that’s hard to describe precisely.
Read essayEducation Left Behind by Political Interests
While the governments in the region are preoccupied with seats of power, positions, coalitions, and the distribution of political spoils, a society that remains deprived of knowledge is growing up right before their eyes.
Read essayWhen Poor Understanding Makes Us a Mouthpiece for Others
The problem with education does not end with poor results on international tests.
Read essayAvailable to Everyone, Absent from Our Loved Ones
We’re sitting at the same table. The conversation continues; a child says something to us, and then the phone rings. A business message has arrived.
Read essayWork That Isn’t Visible at the End of the Day
I can spend ten hours working, yet by evening have nothing to show for it or say: “This is what I accomplished today.” Running a company has changed the way I view the results of a workday.
Read essayWhen You Start to Resemble a Boss You Never Understood
I remember the time when I worked for others and when some of the decisions made by people above me seemed almost insultingly simple.
Read essayWhen Winning Work Becomes a New Worry
Winning work used to be simply good news. We land a project, agree a major contract or find a new opportunity, and for those first few minutes we enjoy it.
Read essayPersonal Brand and Reputation
A polished profile can attract attention. Reputation also depends on how we treat people in ordinary situations, including those who have nothing to offer us.
Read essayThe Company Through the Eyes of an Employee
Sometimes I try to look at my company through the eyes of someone who works there, rather than through the eyes of the person who runs it.
Read essayWhen People Stop Telling You the Truth
When people start tailoring their messages to your mood, you lose some of the information you need to run the company. Unpleasant news is more useful than a carefully sugarcoated problem.
Read essayCalling a Problem a Challenge Does Not Solve It
At the meeting, we called the problem a challenge. For the client waiting for a delivery and the employee unable to manage alone, the new word solved nothing.
Read essayAuthority That Makes Room for Others
Authority also shows in our willingness to recognise another person's effort and open a door for them. Influence gains meaning when it serves more than our own importance.
Read essayLife’s Baggage
I’m coming to realize more and more that much of what I write actually comes from things I’ve carried inside me for a long time.
Read essayWhat Does the Need to Always Be Right Cost?
For a long time, I thought it was important to have a good argument. If you have facts, experience, and good reasons, it’s natural to want the other person to see that you’re right.
Read essayHow much of this life is truly mine?
Behind the question “What is the purpose of all this?” lies another question that I find even harder to ask: How much of the life I’m living is truly mine?
Read essayThe most expensive solutions in companies often begin with the words: “Just for now.”
The most expensive decisions in companies often begin with the words: “Just for now.”
Read essaySometimes, After a Day’s Work, I Feel Like Stroking a Stone
Sometimes, after a day’s work, I feel like stroking a stone and talking to it.
Read essayWhat Does It Cost to Always Be Strong?
For years, I considered endurance one of the more important human qualities. You can keep going a little longer. One more problem, one more project, one more obligation, one more difficult year.
Read essayOver Coffee with Myself
Lately, over coffee with myself, I often think about what I am actually doing and what all of this is for.
Read essayWhen Words Still Had Consequences
Today, almost anyone can speak publicly about anyone else. They can comment on another person’s life, judge decisions made by people they do not know, insult, belittle and condemn them without ever truly facing the consequences of their words.
Read essayThe greatest loss is when a young person stops being curious.
The greatest loss in education is not a bad grade. It is when a young person stops being curious. College welcomes people full of energy—ideas, ambition, talent, and the healthy sense that something great lies ahead.
Read essayThe Strangest Part of Recovery Is Often Not Fatigue, but Guilt
The strangest part of recovery is often not the exhaustion but the guilt that arises when, for the first time, a person can no longer live at the pace to which they’ve accustomed themselves over the years.
Read essayOh, How Many Mistakes I Have Made and Wrong Decisions I Have Taken
There were decisions I was sure were right. They weren’t. There were people I trusted more than I should have, and others I didn’t trust enough. There were moments when I stayed too long where I should have left, but also times when I left too soon.
Read essaySuccess is a curious test of character.
On the path to the top, a person must never forget who they were before they thought they had become someone. Success is a strange test of character.
Read essayLearn to Say, “Enough Is Enough.”
There comes a moment when a person no longer knows whether they’re really doing too little or whether others have simply started expecting too much.
Read essayWhen We Stop Hearing Each Other
We have reached a point where employers no longer hear their employees, and employees no longer listen to their employers. Both sides speak. Both explain.
Read essayYou've survived. But you haven't stopped surviving.
You survived. But you haven't stopped just surviving. There are years that teach a person not to expect much. They teach him to rely mostly on himself, to always have a backup plan,…
Read essayThe phone didn't just change the way we communicate.
The phone hasn't just changed the way we communicate. It's also changed our attitude toward other people's time. You used to call someone, and if they didn't answer, it was understood that…
Read essayThe Most Expensive Reward in a Company Is a Misguided Promotion
The most expensive reward in a company can be a misguided promotion. When someone excels for years, it is natural to want to reward them.
Read essayYou've become the person everyone can count on.
You've become the person everyone can count on. At first, it seems like a virtue. You speak up when others stay silent, you stay when others leave, you take on what no one else wants…
Read essayDo Not Lose Yourself While Working on Yourself
The endless search for a better version of ourselves can turn life into a construction site and make us forget that we already deserve peace.
Read essayWhy Has Arrogance Become the New Norm?
Arrogance is increasingly mistaken for strength while the culture of mutual respect slowly disappears.
Read essayWeak Leaders Do Not Need Strong People
Insecure leaders often do not develop strong people. They try to bring them under control.
Read essayA Company Cannot Depend on People Who Keep Saving the Day
The responsibility of the best people must not replace a sound system and everyone else’s accountability.
Read essayThe Business World Is Harsh. That Is Not Permission to Lose Our Character.
A harsh business world is no excuse to lose our character, trust or the boundaries we refuse to cross.
Read essayI See Fewer and Fewer People
On a world in which we are more visible than ever, yet find it increasingly difficult to notice the person beside us.
Read essayAn essay does not always have to tell you what to do. Sometimes it is enough to make you look differently at what you already do.