Thematic essays

The person before the role

Work stops being only work the moment it begins to change the person.

Roles, results and obligations can easily cover what we were before them. These essays return attention to the person, their boundaries, relationships and right not to lose themselves.

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LinkedIn Is More Than a Directory

LinkedIn’s value lies not only in a polished profile and connection count, but in conversations and shared experience.

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Fairer Treatment Where We Have a Say

People do not start life with the same opportunities. Family, upbringing, health and access to education influence what they can try and the consequences they can endure.

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Developing Ulcinj from Its Own Values

The conversation about the development of Ulcinj starts with space, heritage and the people who live there.

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Be a resource to the people around you

Share the lessons you’ve learned from your successes and failures. Whenever you can, be a resource to the people around you. If you have access to knowledge and basic information, don’t hoard it. Share it openly.

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Why Isn’t This World Getting Better?

Why isn’t this world getting better? This question returns whenever I see the same conflicts, injustices, and decisions whose consequences are borne by people who did not make them.

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The Arrogance of Great Powers

When you look at what’s happening among the great powers, it’s easy to say: politics, interests, geopolitics. But there’s another word we rarely use: arrogance—not the everyday, petty kind, but the systemic kind.

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Great Potential, Too Little Real Value

We’ve long had everything a small country needs to succeed: nature, location, resources, and people.

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Enough Work to Do on Myself

I do not want to concern myself with other people’s business. I have enough work to do on myself. Every imperfection in someone else is just a point on the path they are travelling. Like mine. It is called life. Perhaps someone is watching me right now. My choices.

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TikTok in a Suit

A personal reflection on LinkedIn and the cost of adapting to its format: what remains of why we started writing when a post’s reach becomes the main concern?

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Pain Is Not a License for Arrogance

I’m seeing more and more arrogance. Condescension. A condescending attitude. And every time, it’s the same story: “You know what I’ve been through…” As if pain were an automatic license for bad behavior.

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A Smile That Hides an Agenda

The most dangerous people are not always those who attack openly. More dangerous are those who smile while undermining you. Those who pat you on the shoulder while calculating how they can use you.

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A Response That Doesn’t Escalate the Conflict

A harsh response can intensify a conflict. Do not descend to the language of those who attack you. Do not answer with an insult just because someone else used one first. That does not defeat them; it only makes you lose yourself.

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Truth or Anesthesia?

The harsh truth is that many people aren’t looking for the truth. They’re looking for anesthesia. They want a phrase that will calm them down, a quote that will give them a sense of depth.

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Humanity That Is Only Spoken of Beautifully

I wonder whether we even live on the same planet. Some seem to read books to become better people, while others do so to have prettier quotations as they trample over others. Some fight wrongdoing because injustice hurts them.

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Don’t forget why you started

Today, the problem is no longer that people don’t know what’s right. The problem is that many have forgotten why they set out on that path in the first place.

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The Person Behind a Single Negative Reaction

One reason our relationships are deteriorating is that we define people too quickly based on what they showed in a single moment.

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Listening That Is Disappearing from Our Conversations

There is something slowly disappearing from our conversations. Listening.

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When We Get Used to the Distance Between Us

In traffic, I see nervousness. On the street, absence. In grocery stores, impatience. In cafés and restaurants, people sit together yet act as if they are not.

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We can help someone write a better chapter

This world is no fairy tale. For some people, it is a harsh place—much harsher than we can imagine until we stop and look at how they live, what burdens they carry, and what they struggle with every day.

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Moments That Become Memories

Some moments pass almost unnoticed. Only later do I realize that I’m missing a casual conversation, an encounter, or a moment that I thought would be easy to repeat.

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Inequality and Responsibility for Systemic Change

Talks about a fairer society often end with choosing a name for the system. As if a new label alone could fix the concentration of power, inequality, and responsibility.

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Good Will Hunting and the Fear of Being Seen

In Good Will Hunting, what draws me in more than the genius is the question of how hard it is to let another person get to know us.

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A Community We Can Turn to

I want a community where even people with no connections, no influence, and no one to recommend them can get help.

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A Small Country and Clear Responsibilities

A small country could be easier for citizens and entrepreneurs to navigate. It should be clear who is responsible, what is required, and when a request will be resolved.

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When a Game Becomes Infrastructure

Pokémon GO shows that a game can become part of an infrastructure that outlives entertainment itself.

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Thank you to those who came and those who stayed

Some people were important during a certain period of my life. Some stayed with me afterward. Only with the benefit of hindsight do I realize how much our conversations, their help, and the time we spent together influenced me.

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Public Office as Opportunity or Responsibility

Public office provides access to information, decisions, and resources that other people do not have. That is precisely why it should not be viewed as a personal business opportunity.

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When the Human Element Disappears from a Lecture

A lecture may be accurate, well-organized, and well-prepared, yet the listener may still be unclear on how to apply that knowledge.

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Giving Advice When Someone Else Bears the Consequences

I am wary of how easily some people pin the title of “life coach” on themselves. A polished profile and a confident demeanor do not, on their own, show how well a person grasps the consequences of the advice they give.

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Are We Preparing Children for the Future or for the Past?

We often believe that we are preparing children for the future. But what if, in fact, we are preparing them for the past?

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Don’t Live in Someone Else’s Interpretation

People often view us through their own eyes, their own wounds, their own fears, their own interests, and their own limitations. Some will see pride in your silence.

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Judgment Before Understanding

Today, people are quick to judge one another. It is enough for someone to think differently, live differently, or make a decision others do not understand for them to immediately declare that person wrong.

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Do people really want freedom?

People often say they want freedom. They want to choose their own path, make their own decisions, and live without interference from others.

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An Entire Past, Almost No Present

We don’t call certain people anymore, but we haven’t had a falling out. Nothing major happened. There were no harsh words, no argument—not even a moment after which we said it was over.

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Understanding Our Parents Differently as We Get Older

For a long time, we see our parents through a child’s eyes. We remember what they did not allow, words that upset us and boundaries we did not understand.

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Europe as a Change We Must Make Within Ourselves

Montenegro was part of Europe long before EU negotiations. Membership is about more than geography, funding, open borders and business opportunities.

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The Future After Our Decisions

Until I became a parent, the future was mostly mine. I could imagine it through my plans, decisions, successes and failures.

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Injustice doesn’t become any less of an injustice just because it’s committed by one of our own

Evil is evil. And nothing can justify it. But when I look at what has been happening in our region and what is happening around the world, I wonder how ready we really are to stand behind that statement.

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Life goes on even when the screen goes dark

Technology has accustomed us to shortening the gap between wanting something and getting it. We increasingly fill waiting, boredom and silence with a screen, making the example we set for children important.

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When What We See No Longer Disturbs Us

Sometimes a person reads the news or opens a website just to see what’s going on, and after a few minutes is left with a feeling that’s hard to describe precisely.

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Education Left Behind by Political Interests

While the governments in the region are preoccupied with seats of power, positions, coalitions, and the distribution of political spoils, a society that remains deprived of knowledge is growing up right before their eyes.

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When Poor Understanding Makes Us a Mouthpiece for Others

The problem with education does not end with poor results on international tests.

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When Words Still Had Consequences

Today, almost anyone can speak publicly about anyone else. They can comment on another person’s life, judge decisions made by people they do not know, insult, belittle and condemn them without ever truly facing the consequences of their words.

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The greatest loss is when a young person stops being curious.

The greatest loss in education is not a bad grade. It is when a young person stops being curious. College welcomes people full of energy—ideas, ambition, talent, and the healthy sense that something great lies ahead.

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Why Has Arrogance Become the New Norm?

Arrogance is increasingly mistaken for strength while the culture of mutual respect slowly disappears.

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I See Fewer and Fewer People

On a world in which we are more visible than ever, yet find it increasingly difficult to notice the person beside us.

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We must not become so successful in our roles that we stop recognising the person within us.