Fatigue and pressure can make conversation difficult. Sometimes we notice that we answered someone else's question more rudely than it deserved. It is worth recognizing this before such a relationship becomes a habit.
However, we cannot know that behind every anger there is sadness or that rudeness is someone's call for help. We can ask what is going on and at the same time clearly state what behavior we do not accept.
Understanding a person and protecting ourselves from their actions can go together. In a relationship, it is important to leave room for conversation, but also to expect responsibility for words and the consequences they leave behind.
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