Help loses some of its meaning if we calculate in advance what benefit we will receive from the person we are helping. Someone can have a real need while currently having nothing to offer in return.
This does not mean we should accept every request or neglect our own responsibilities. We can decide what we are able to offer and make it clear, without a promise we cannot keep.
How help feels to the other person also matters. It should respect their decisions and dignity, without demanding public gratitude. Such an action can remain small and private. Its value does not depend on whether it becomes a new connection or a business opportunity.
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